Aug 25, 2026
Many gay men prepare financially for retirement, yet still feel uncertain about what they are retiring into.
Ken Howard, LCSW, CST, explores the “blueprint gap”: reaching later life without an inherited picture of what a satisfying retirement should contain. Traditional retirement narratives often assume children,...
Aug 21, 2026
What happens when a long-term gay couple is no longer fully monogamous—but neither partner feels entirely comfortable calling the relationship open?
Ken Howard, LCSW, CST explores the emotional territory between monogamy and consensual non-monogamy: relationships that change gradually, sexual agreements that make...
Jul 31, 2026
In Part 2 of Five Love Languages Reimagined for Gay Men, Ken Howard, LCSW, CST explores why receiving gifts and physical touch can mean far more than they seem. Gifts may communicate that your partner stayed in your mind; touch can offer comfort, safety, and belonging without needing to lead to sex.
Ken connects these...
Jul 28, 2026
The five love languages can be useful—but for gay men, they
often carry deeper psychological meaning.
In Part 1 of this two-part episode, Ken Howard, LCSW, CST,
reimagines the familiar framework through the lived experiences of
gay men. He explores why words of affirmation can be about being
seen, why acts of service...
Jul 15, 2026
Many successful gay men appear to have everything: thriving careers, financial security, meaningful accomplishments, and lives that others admire. Yet beneath that success, many quietly wonder whether they are truly lovable—or simply valued for what they achieve.
In this episode, Ken Howard, LCSW, CST, explores why...